Also not a lady but...at the Monterey Bay Aquarium I saw women diving in the tanks with ponytail threaded through a hole in the hood...never seen that anywhere else.
On the one hand, keeping the neoprene closer to the scalp would seem to be a good thing, but if the hole just lets in a ton of water it might do more harm than good. Anyway I’ve wondered ever since how that worked for them. If the aquarium water is the same temp as the ocean then that’s pretty cold.