Sounds to me like she`s posting photos or info that might "invite" guys to be rude. I have several female "buddies" on my list. I`m not hitting on them or sending provocative mail to them and I am a healthy heterosexual male. Some of them are very very attractive (and sexy) but I`m also a gentleman. I will admit there are a few women posting photos that say a little more than "HI"!