I`m a female and have both males and a females on my buddy list. I feel like I have good relationships with most of the people I come across. I have come to learn from most of my buddies, male and female. There has been about 5 men who have tried to make our relationship more than dive buddies, which is a little frustrating because it was out of nowhere and after one email exchange. Never did I send any hint of looking for more than diving. It can be annoying. These five men, happened to have all females on thier list. I also get frustrated at the females who take tons of pictures of themselves that have nothing to do with diving but perhaps to get attention from guys. It takes away from the purpose of this site.