The young lady (assume), has a point. I was drawn to this site by the matter in which Greg had designed it feeling comfortable communicating to both new and veterams of the sport and finding not only buddies whom have invited me to stay as I travel but buddies I feel comfortable doing the same (opening my door and giving shelter). There are ways to properly show interest in someone if you are sincere... otherwise there are certainly no shortage of dating, personal and alternative sites for those types of interest. I am married and will open my home to buddies diving in Maryland or even passing through, I would hate to think that I might invite someone with a perverted mind into the same house where my wife lives, my daughter and daughter in-law and other females friends spend time. How your daughters, wives, sisters, mothers... and please don`t use the man excuse... no real man behaves in such a manner. Would you treat the women in your life the same way? Dive Well...Maurice aka "Mostest Ganpa"