Im in a situation thats the same..but im not married. Iv been diving for a few years and go away on dive trips ..but lately she in doors has started moaning and making me feel bad for diving. Iv talked and told her im only young once and only here once,,diving is what i love doing and it makes me happy... there comes a time when you have got to live your life your way and should not be made to feel bad about it. Iv told my partner il be diving for as long as i can..and if she makes me feel bad for being happy in life then she has got to go... watch this space.