I dont care what gender a person is. I treat them exactly how i would want to be treated period. I am not in this hobby to find a wife/girlfriend or whatever to me scuba is an escape from the normal hustle and bustle in life. If your a lady diving as i am male your not going to get anything other then what we are there for diving :D Well the buddy checks and help donning gear is in there as well. Honestly the only way a female diver is going to get a second look from me is if she is diving nude and a looker, or if she is screaming she is OOA.
But yeah always treat someone how you want to be treated and you might get a WHOLE lot further then you would if you treat someone crappy.